the trip went well. I was able to limit the times I had to change thanks to the more absorbent material, even through I had to get used to wearing something with more padding. I was stressing about traveling with my son and his friend from OK to GA, but it ended up being no big deal. On a funny note, We were traveling back and of course I had to change and what my wife said when I grabbed my bag was just too funny in front of my son's friend. "He's just getting his reading material to go to the bathroom." I just shook my head and laughed and went on about my business as if it was no big deal. I'm sure he wonder why I had to go to the bathroom a couple of times with my reading material.
I have started getting to a point where I just don't care about it anymore. I will keep it private as much as I can, but for simplicity sake it might just be easier to tell people the circumstances behind having "reading material for the bathroom". After my last post about confronting a younger person about his comments, it wasn't long before I was talking to someone else about leaving the military and documenting items in their medical record. Well he just blurted out about having bladder issues. I could see the frustration in his face and just shut the door and we had a short conversation. Shortly afterwards, he approached me and said I will never know how much I helped him and his wife deal with his situation. I just asked to keep it private, but I have been wondering the more people like me make it known this happens how many more will come out of hiding and say "yep I have the same issue."
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