sociologygeek wrote:
Honestly.. i have no idea what causes my incontinece problem.. and i still don't know... for the longest time i didnt do anything about it..just treated it as normal..only this year did i start wearing protection for it at all.. and BOY am i glad that i decided to do so! sure, its expensive..but for the most part my underwear stays dry.. does not smell like urine every day and no spots on the underwear.. somehow..i thought it was normal for a guy to have a spot of urine on his underwear every day.. never thought it was a problem...unitil i logged on to incon chat..and someone suggested i wear protection..and i did..life is much better now! this problem i think has been going on a number of years..and i still don't know the cause
I agree with your comments regarding underwear smelling of urine everyday. Since using the protection 24/7, my pants no longer smell!
I don't know what started my incontinence but when I was at school, I remember wetting myself, maybe once or twice a week. My parents weren't very supportive, unfortunately, but then I stopped when I was a teenager.
Then a few years ago I noticed that during the day, my pants would be wet and smell of urine. Sometimes the wetness was a few dribbles, other days it would be soaked. Now, the wetting has become more frequent and more in volume. I seem to notice that when menstruating. that I tend to wet more (including some nights). I don't know if this is a normal thing in urinary incontinence?
Occassionally, I do have bowel incontinence and I had my first episode in June. I do suffer from diarrhoea from time to time and when this happens it is frequent. Not sure if this is also linked to incontinence.