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Well Janes Husband did come home for a few days. Jane said it been rocky at best. The kids were happy.

But then it happen again he got drunk this last Friday night Started in on her again. She was in tears from what I got out of it . She called me late Friday night to talk to me. Then Saturday morning this will really STRIP YOUR GEARS! She said when she woke up she could smell dirty diapers She said she rolls over to find under the cover of his side of the bed that the S.O.B took the Diaper pail that had nearly a weeks worth of dirty diapers (both hers and the kids) and dumped it under the covers. There was a note on the pillow that said THERE HOW DO YOU LIKE SLEEPING NEXT TO AN USED DIAPER

Also He's now going to drive over the road truck instead of his local runs. (more then likely so he doesn't have to be home anymore) My husband said the best thing he could do after a stunt like that is leave town

Jane is now talking divorce she has had it. She left a message on his cell phone stating if you don't get the divorce papers I will She has an appointment with a lawyer next week.................Sandy

WOW, I sure feel sorry for her and will keep her and her kids in my prayers.
It's a shame that some people are so narrow minded.

I got around to reading this post in its entirety a few days ago. Wow, what a story. Sandy, you have been a great help it seems like in helping those around you who face the same conditon. I only hope i can be as good as you. I am still going thru the denial phase so aptly described elswhere on the forum. I don't deny that im incontinent, i dont deny i need diapers, what i do deny somehow is that this is probably permanent. Part of me doesn't want to accept diapers 100%.

I like helping people. Sandy, if i was in your husband's situation, i would have done the EXACT same thing. Nothing bugs me more than to see someone being mocked or ridiculed.

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Sandy,
Jane, the kids, your husband and yourself are in my prayers. It's a shame that Jane's husband is so shallow. I pray that some of his deliveries is diapers. Thanks for being such a great friend to Jane and all of us here.

indeed, i also shall pray.. prayer is very powerful

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Jane and I had a good one yesterday afternoon. you guys will love this. We had been out shopping together yesterday then around two o'clock we stopped at a Cafe to get some lunch. we were sitting there just got done eating and I saw a small expression of how should I say on Janes face. I said what's up I think I knew but well you know.

she says in a low voice I wish I would have changed in the van. I thought "O" great I said are you OK She said My bladder just emptied into my already wet diaper I'm leaking bad I said how bad SHE SAID BAD Wouldn't you know she has light color jeans on

So I said lets get out of here. Jane says how So I did the glass of water trick First I left money for the bill on the table. Then I said in a normal voice here have some of my water. I had ordered a large glass and hardly drank any of it. I took the glass and was handing it to her when darn it slipped out of my hand and right into Janes Lap Perfect shot right on her lap and between her legs Jane in total SHOCK Says what the Heck CRAP and jumps out of her seat the plastic cup bouncing across the floor water and ice all over the seat and floor. Jane standing there Shocked and soaked. Here comes the waitress over to see what happen. Janes going for the door. I'm at this point starting to crack up. What a production I'd love to see that one on tape again

I went out to the van. Janes in back with her pants off FREEZING trying to change out of her diaper and get a dry one on The whole time still in TOTAL SHOCK OF WHAT JUST HAPPEN All I could do was sit there and laugh MAN did that work great. I never dreamed it could work that well.

Jane is starting to settle down. and says DAM that was cold S.O.B Sandy What were you thinking I said I was thinking of getting out of there. I said you were so shocked you seemed to totally forget you soaked yourself. She said well ya your right but you could have gave me a heads up first. I thought about that but I think this worked better Well now here's poor Jane sitting in her seat in a cold van with her Jacket on socks shoes a dry diaper and no pants what a site. I'm still giggling Well at least I keep blankets in the the van just in case in the winter time if you get stranded So she wrapped up in that.

We got home Jane gets out goes in the house wraped in a blanket I go in with her jeans. My husband comes into the kitchen and see us me with jeans in hand Jane in a blanket and says what the heck All Jane says is Your wife used the cup of water in the lap bit on me He started laughing he knew full well what that was about. So where did it happen. I told him where and how it all went down. He laughed harder then I did.

Jane has some cloths at our house so she went and got some sweats on came back sits down and says That was pretty funny wasn't it I just wish it wouldn't have been me

.................Sandy

Sandy,
That really was a good one. I feel sorry for Jane being the recepient of your trick, but looks like it worked. I guess next time Jane is eating with you, she's going to watch where you place your water glass! Really funny! .........Paul Martin

That was cleaver and quick thinking Sandy. I would just be careful the next time you two are out eating again, lol.

Now you have convinced me to make sure I order a glass of water every time I go out to eat.

Sandy, just a little bit of water will go a long way unless you want a shower. What was the weather like that day? The least you could have done Sandy ws to start the engine to the van so you could get the heater going. That must have been really cold considering the weather right now in your part of the country.

Thankfully, ive never had to resort to using this trick..yet..knock on wood.. but im sure i will.. I wear nylon pants over my diaper..and they work well at containg any leaks.. though..at Midnight mass.. i didnt have a glass of water handy..but there was a holy water font in the back....could it be applied with that? That would be hilarious..even more so than your escapade with Jane.. ppl would wonder what the heck i was doing, splashing holy water on myself on purpose..lol..maybe that wouldnt work. Shrug.. i dunno.. it might be sacreligous too

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"THERE ARE FOUR LIGHTS!" - Captain Picard from Chain of Command, Part II