www.incontinentsupport.org

I am not going to go into great detail but I am sure most of you will get what I am talking about at some point.

I have been to many different sites about Incontinence and I mean many and have really never felt that any of them really focused on the real issues that go along with this type of issue. Yes I call it a issue and I am pretty sure I told everyone my story.

So this is not at all in no way directed at any one just facts that I have seen and I just cannot seem to understand why people need to go into great detail about their issue, like people finding out, which in some cases can be a real issue, but I have always been the kind of person that has always said it doesn't matter what people think because they don't know the problem or do they know why.

I have seen so many stories or made up fabricated as to why people need to wear a diaper, I sometimes just sit here in disbelief and sometimes I have to laugh, and say to myself honestly man that is not a real issue you made that up, and there is no such thing, yes I know there are people out here in the word that have that fetish to make others think or feel sorry for them but again I still don't get it and how it can be honestly a turn on for many.

I once read this story from a guy who stated, (and get this) "My parents never potty trained me so I don't know how to use a potty so that is why I wear diapers" I am like wait, holy crap batman does he expect people to buy that story??? Dude not even real and never happened, and there isn't a parent alive in the world that would ignore this type of thing. I did get a lot of backlash as you can guess, and one person said to me, it is his fantasy, ok I guess.

Honestly guys and gals, people who have these conditions really don't have reasons to share the stupid things, like I messed my self in my sleep last night what do I do? at least I couldn't find myself letting people know about my personal life. Please don't take this as a negative please. I am just venting longer then I should.

Not long ago I person asked me, "Aren't you worried that someone is going to see you wear diapers if you are in a store or eating out", my comment was simple, "Let me ask you this, how much time do you spend looking at people's asses to spot them wearing diapers"? yep it is true no one doesn't give a crap or they are not looking but if you make it apparent then of course.

Lets just keep it simple I always say.

If I have offended any one I am truly sorry.

Although I am not a psychologist, I do understand that there is a wide variance to human behavior. Some of it is medically connected; other behaviors are psychologically caused. For instance, I vomit in my sleep. I walk like a drunk. Incontinence simply does not occur to casual bystanders, which is the way I want it. However, there are times when I must explain myself to tablemates, and do it in a way that is socially acceptable, which can be a challenge.