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Not sure where it happened, but it stayed in my memory. I think she bailed out of complete embarrassment more then anything! Puffy

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Puffy
BC, Canada
Fighting the "Bladder Battle" since 1995

The whole "how often should I change?" was a red flag when I went back and read it........nobody joins here and just blurts out things like that......should have known right then.....l.l.

So how often should an incontinent person change? Just kidding, just kidding.

when it is so wet it sags to your ankles.....

Yeah... those questions did seem a little elementary for someone who claimed to be incontinent. Whether that person was legit or not, I neither have the facts or desire to comment as I have better things to do. Such as enjoying the fact that if anybody does slip through the net and ends up here, with inappropriate intentions, will soon enough reveal their true colours, unprovoked. Thats why I like this place. I think what has happened here is an example of just how strong this community is. And I love it.

I kind of feel silly for taking it seriously.

Quite a visual, batman, lol. I tried to stop my mind from going there - Doh - too late! But the capacity would be amazing....

W.

After stewing on it a little bit, I was coming back to delete it as I was thinking it might have been a little on the inappropriate side. It was a quick remark on my sarcastic side of me asking do you really have to ask that? You change when you can to prevent rashes or you know you are reached the capacity of the diaper. Not to mention that is somewhat of a personal choice of when to change.

Wait, asking how often to set your changing schedule is bad? I did that when I first joined and was trying to figure it all out......

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I was thinking the same thing. You'd be surprised how even the basic and natural things are still a complete mystery for some people.

I've seen legitimately incontinent people seriously ask this same question before, and well probably see it again eventually.