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For the most part people are so busy with their own lives that they wouldn't notice if someone was wearing one of those Viking helmets with the horns sticking out each side.
And besides, who knows what other people are wearing under [u]their[/u] regular clothes...
Have a good day!

Scott

Hi all read all the comments and agree most people can't tell you are wearing a diaper as I got older really don't care they would be guessing anyway,as Paul said earlier I use the diaper for security and peice of mind.

I'm not sure if this is menat to be a compliment but just to assure myself I'm going to take it as one. A friend told me that it looks like you're finally gaining some weight in the back and not in your stomach. She said don't worry it looks good. It was the bulk filling out my otherwise sagging jeans. I wasn't sure how to take this comment but if they didn't notice it to be the diaper I'll take it as a compliment. Then today I took off my coat and had on a shorter shirt than usual. Someone else said when I turned around You are gaining weight!. That was definitely not a compliment because I would never say that to anyone. If that's what people think its better than the alternative.

Sounds sort of interesting to me! I would take it as a compliment. Sounds like you're getting noticed by your co-horts! ..........Paul Martin

Hi all some great points made when I frist wearing a diaper was really concerned about noise and any bludges after a while dose not matter so much have learned ways to conceal the noise.Yes people who use diapers would notice things more sometimes overactive mind I guess.

I don't think it's that so much as it's just a slightly different way of thinking. Like for instance, you buy a new car. In the first couple of months you're driving it you notice others like it, probably more than before you bought yours. I think it's the same kind of thing.

Yes I can say I have been 'spotted" and I have had people aske me, are you wearing a diaper? and I say, well yes I am, why does that concern you? I dont need to get into the justification of it, none of their damn business.

Like i did with Jane a while back when she was asked about it.

Well of course we both do don't you

That guy is probly still in shock

............................Sandy

This is one of those "what mood are you in" questions. If some one is rude enogh to ask if you are wearing a diaper you can pretty much reply anyway you wish. But your mood will depend on your answer. A friend asked me if I was in a diaper recently and I was about to lay him out in lavender but instead said "Why do you ask?" His answer changed the whole mood . He said he had been just diagnoised with prostate cancer and knew I had been through the same thing. It turned out he had no idea I was wearing diapers but just asked to find out what the future might be like. I had a long talk with him about PC and at the end asked him if I looked like I was wearing a diaper? He said "No" then I shocked him and said "Well I am and have been in diapers 24/7 for 5 years." Then asked him he if wanted to play golf the next day. He was kinda in shock, then realized I was showing him that "Life goes on." Even in a wet diaper! Papa

I have been incontinent since 1986. Since then, I think I have tried just about every type of protection on the market. I could have save a LOT of money over the years if I would have talked to others that also had bladder problems and used protection. What I have learned over the years is really the obvious if you give it any thought. Cloth diapers maybe good for night and home use, but DON'T wear them outside your home and be prepaired for that unexpected vistor to come knocking on your door.

If you use cloth diapers it is best to only use them at night just before bed for all the reasons stated in the above. Bulk in the crotch area is a sure tell sign of someone wearing a diaper. No bulk; no noise; and no leaks will prevent anyone from knowing your wearing a diaper day, or night.