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Hi, I have a couple contradictyory thoughts about your situation.

First try not to make assumptions about the situation. True, he may be a DL, but he may not. As many of us know, our incontinecne can cause a pretty isolating situation for people. Many people don't feel comfortable, going in public or talking to other people because of thier fear that they may be noticed wearing diaper. This may be a young man, whom was feeling this loneliness, and truly wanted to connect with someone whom shares his condition. Also, not everyone has good social skills, so he may have had no idea how to truly act under the situation. Myself, prior to my incontinence, i remember several times when i was younger and talking to an attractive women, whom i was interested, and i often had no chacne with, i would get an erection, it felt awkard and uncomfortable, and i tried to do everything i could to hide it, but it happens. On the other hand he could be a pervert. I'd think about how else he acted in the conversation. Did he try to get a phone number, or or give you his phone number. Did he try to arrange other times to get together. What was he doing before he approached you. Was the diaper tucked into his waistband or hanging out of his waist band. Was he overly charming, or did he feel insincere in other ways, did you mention your long boyfriend and did he back off completely. Those may give you more clues to his purpose as well.

Secondly it is typically good to follow your instincts. Sometimes, they can lead us astray, but most of the time, they are right on. If you left feeling creeped out, then there is probably something that your brain picked up that is sending warning signals in your brain. So listen to that warning.

Best suggestion i can make at this point, If you run into him again or talk to him again, make sure to talk a lot about your boyfriend, how connected you are to him, how understanding he is, how much you love him. Bassicaly let him know without a doubt that he has no chance.