www.incontinentsupport.org

havent been on the site much lately, but that doesnt mean things have improved unfortunately.
i wore a diaper to pride and after having an accident and meeting someone who i thought was cute i took it off and basically didnt drink the entire day.
bad idea. got dehydrated.
ive pretty much decided that if i want a partner that they are just gonna have to accept me for me and that includes my incontinence.
ive also been looking for an online realtime chat type thing.
anyone know of any sites? all ive found is the abdl stuff. and i dont want to be fetishized. i just dont get MAKING yourself incontinent.
but thats a whole nother topic.

anyhoo. i have another appointment with the urologist tomorrow and honestly im not too hopeful.

You're looking for an online, real-time, chat program, for dating, for incontinent folks?

It strikes me that focus is probably too narrow. I would suggest just using more generic search parameters, and if you give someone interesting, let them in on any pertinent details.

not necessarily for dating, more of a support site like this one.

justej, iMHO, this site is the best that I have found. There are several other minor sites with a very low level of activity - IMHO not what you are looking for.

Most of the other major sites have an AB/DL orientation. However, for the best non-AB/DL site I have found, try the "Inspire" site. It has a very broad orientation and one of its sub-groups (health communities) is the National Association for Continence Support Community. The topics seem to be very diverse.

--John

I have been a member on the Inspire forum and the people running it are a bit questionable. Not that they are bad people but I know of a few things that make me not want to continue that membership.

This is the best forum if you don't want to get bashed for deciding diapers are an acceptable management tool for incontinence.

As far as looking to meet people, there are many of us on here that are single and mostly harmless.

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Doug, I tried to check out the Inspire forum earlier today - they wanted me to sign up before letting me have a look around. That was a red flag for me. Even though they are affiliated with NAFC, my spidey sense sent me running.

Wetters

Your best bet is right here......I'm trying out a forum for people with interstitial cystitis......doesn't seem to be as active as this one......I guess this place just feels like home!!

Home is where the heart is!

--John