I'm familiar with urinary incontinence. I've learned to deal with it. Most of the time it is just slight with occasional accidents. It doesn't bother me too much.
But I've just realized I am fecal incontinent and it really bothers me.
I'm not sure which aspect bothers me the most. It's messy. It smells (much more than urine). It is uncomfortable. It is embarrassing, humbling. All those bother me but what bothers me more is probably not knowing why this is happening. I haven't spoke with the doctor about it yet. I'll get into how this developed in another forum.