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I got a pm today from Rope_Wrench. He asked me to tell everyone hi.

Wetters

Tell him Hi back and hope he is doing well.

I too say hello, and hope he is well.

Excellent! I hope he is well.

--John

Say hi for me too. I miss him and hope to see him back with us soon.

Add my best wishes and my request for Rope's speedy return. We need him.

Hello guys and gals,

Sorry I have been away for so long but I have had a lot on my plate the past few months. I won't go in to a whole lot of detail but the just is I was in a very depressed place and the incontinence was a major factor. Because of this I reached out for some support and it went to a very dark place and I began having very inappropriate conversations with someone online and my wife found out. I quickly saw the error of my ways but my wife was very hurt and my focus has been on building back our relationship.
My wife has been awesome and did not deserve my behavior. But because of this I have seen where I need to focus my attention on my coping with this condition and I feel I am moving forward with this. I'll try to continue to keep an eye on things here but till I build back our relationship I most put all my attention here at home.
Thank you everyone for all the well wishes and prayers. Its nice to know I am missed buy such good people.

Rope

Rope, I'm very sorry about what happened, although I completely understand how someone can go there. I'm happy that you are in the process of rebuilding your relationship with your wife. I wish you and your family the very best always.

Wetters

Rope, I'm thinking about you and your family......I wish you the best of luck, stay strong!!! We've got your back!!

Rope, The shock of winding up back in diapers and all the emotional swings that come with that definitely has an affect on our mental stability. It is not easy dealing with such a radical life changing event like incontinence and wearing diapers and using them. We seek out solace in any form that might give us a relief from our anger, shame and loss of control. It is traumatic, and being so, leaves us alone in a world we had no idea existed. This is a whole different world we now live in. All the strength we can muster and all the "I don't care what people think anymore," and the "I have it all under control," talk quickly evaporates with one bad incident. That it plays games with our minds upsets us, but, it is part of life now. We can only do the best we can, it is what it is. For you, and me, and all who deal with this and others who deal with their own devils, I wish the best. Paul