www.incontinentsupport.org

I started living with a full-time Indeweller Catheter in April this year as my Urologist trialled Bladder Botox, which caused near retention I (had retention and overflow incontinence since injury when I had to start wearing Pullups then Nappies when things progressed), but the Botox made it worse.

Since then, I have been having issues days after I sexually relieve myself (I am a single male), which has left me internally raw for days to the point my Urology nurse has noticed I am raw and commented.

I have never learnt much about relieving oneself from anyone, but now it gets painful for days after relief.

Do you have any suggestions on where to look for advice (I have no idea)?

My urologist specialist has ruled out SPC, and due to my Autism and essential tremors, I can not self-cath, so full-time IDC, open valve (issues with it closed as well as problems with leg bags)draining into nappies as my nerve to the bladder muscle has been damaged my Urologist has stated.
Sorry if it's inappropriate not sure where else to ask as I am isolated

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I am not an ABDL, I have medical Incontinence due to spinal damage.
I also have
Autism, ADHD, Bipolar, Physical Disabilities and Anxiety Disorder eg CPTSD, etc

You won't like it, but I will be brutally honest here. If it hurts you, don't do it. Releive your urges between catheter changes if possible.