On this note.. i do have an advantage as a college student. At college, virtually EVERYBODY carries a backpack..and no one would look twice at a student carrying one into the bathroom..after all, who wants to leave their stuff unattended if there's something important in there? So, naturally i dont feel any hesitation at all whilist on campus taking my backpack to the bathroom and taking care of business. But, the past year, i did all my on-campus diaper changes in the basement of the arts center.. I am still figuring out how to deal with changes and whatnot while working..fortunately.. an episode requiring immediate changing has not happened while working.. i know as soon as i can afford to.. a case of abena will be a welcome purchase..
How DO you carry spare diaper changes discreetly without raisning suspicion of shopliting while at stores? One idea that MAY work depending on the size and style of the diaper used is wear cargo pants and stick them in the pocket. I have done this with my tena ultas on one occasion.. it may work better with other diapers..
www.continenceconnection.com carries a product known as the "Leg Luggah" It is designed to strap onto one's leg and hold ostomy bags, catheters and the like, but, it iis a bigtsmall to carry full size adult diapers.
This is where extended wear comes into play. But, this situation is especially difficult for those who deal with bowel incontinence, since obviously extended wear is NOT an option for those folks. A soiled diaper needs to be changed ASAP.
But, again, i digress. Perhaps one could design an adult onesie with an extra wide pocket in the front or back large enough to hold an adult brief.
This is when those in wheelchairs have a descisive edge over those of us who are mobile..no one looks twice at a wheelchair user carrying a backpack on the back of their chair..but then again..most people in wheelchairs are "assumed" to be incontient and needing diapers and such..so most people don't think otherwise. Which is a fair assumption..but may not be 100% accurate.
I know this much..if i have to live with incontinence long term, i have to come up with a definte concrete way with dealing with carrying extra supplies with me. 3 times i have been asked why im carrying a backpack around. At college, its no big deal. But when at home or going to a party.. it gets awkward. So, i think anyone who desiges a clever way to hide incontinece products on one's person would make a lot of money..like the leg luggah.