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Several on this post have indicated that they have accepted their need for diapers. My question is how?
Acceptance is ongoing for my part. I wear a pull-up daily and use the toilet, maintaining as much control as possible (this much I
have accepted). When I go out, I sometimes take chances and continue in a pull-up. At others, I'll wear plastic pants over the pull-up just in case, or reluctantly, I'll wear a diaper if I fear the possibility of a fecal accident.
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Have any of you tried to go unprotected at times, and if so how did that go?
Now that I work from home, there is a strong temptation for me to go unprotected. My problem is that I often need to make a trip or two to stores to pick up groceries, supplies like cat litter etc. I know from experience that going to stores unprotected is a bad idea. So rather than try to plan every day, I just wear a pull-up. This has proven useful a few times, for even just around the house. If I didn't do this I'd have to stop and change before I went out. I find that extremely inconvenient and I prefer not to draw unwanted attention to my IC.
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My incontinence is so unpredictable. There are times when I can go nearly a day without feeling the need/urge to pee. ... but I still feel that I can manage without diapers. I feel it a waste to wear a diaper when it may not be necessary. Do any of you wear a diaper just in case?
I've been wearing pull-ups during the day for over a year now, and most days I throw it away thinking it was a waste. But is
insurance a waste? It is if you never use it. But like insurance, you're buying safety for the unexpected.
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I'm not sure I'm brave enough to try. At soon to be 75 years young, I'm a little hesitant to start experimenting on anything.
I'm a decade younger but to maintain the facade of dignity, I do try different products. The choices tend to be personal and what works for one is often unsuitable for someone else. Unfortunately, this requires a certain amount of experimentation.
I do find that if your U-IC are not floods, that you can comfortably get by with pull-ups (I like the TENA Extra). If you have fecal accidents then pull-ups are not up to the task. Briefs (diapers) are inconvenient if you plan to use the toilet often, but some folks seem to manage it. In the end, this is something you'll need to decide for yourself. Good luck.