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I have days and nights when I stay dry, sometimes several in a row. Then, out of the blue I will have a bunch of wet days and nights.
In the beginning of my IC I tried to predict when I needed more/less day "protection". Since the summer, I have given up that idea and upped my pull-up protection to guard against worst case accidents. There has been a number of times where this has saved face. But most days, I do throw away dry pull-ups.
I then tried cloth for night time. That worked ok and except for the bulk it was comfortable. I could live with this because only I ever saw it (wife knows its under the PJs). Most nights I could use the facilities when needed and make it to morning dry. Under ideal conditions this meant I only had to wash when I had an accident, or weekly. That worked for a little while. But partly because I perspire a lot overnight due to my lack of heat regulation caused by nerve damage (diabetes), I started to find black specs of mould on the front of the diaper. Then later on more mould (mildew?) on the inside front of the diaper. That was the last straw. Yes, I can use vinegar and bleach etc. but the frequent washing requirement killed it for me.
So now I have given up and just wear disposable briefs at night. I find this embarrassing. Since I am discarding the brief (TENA Classic) in the morning anyway, I now use it around 3 am to help me make it to morning without getting out of bed. I'm paying for this privilege after all. After my samples and Classics run out, I'll probably step up to the TENA Ultra for more absorbency. Like you, I am giving up and using a diaper.
I'm still trying to figure out if this is the way forward for me or not. By using the diaper at night, I am probably going to become more dependent on it. I'm trying to avoid using premium diapers overnight to save $$$. I fear that it may also influence my daytime continence because I've also had weeks where I could easily have had more day accidents if I didn't run to the bathroom. This indeed
is very frustrating.
While I don't want to give in to the diaper during the day yet, I fear that day is coming. I wouldn't blame anyone who did. The unpredictability of it is vexing.