I agree...6 months ago, i fought the idea of wearing anything except a guard.. i didn'nt want to give up my underwear.. but slowly, as i realized that guards were unreliable, and my incontinence got worse, i eventually became accustomed to wearing undergarments with underwear over them.. but then it came time to wear pullups when the undergarment straps got unconfortable.. then briefs when the pullups got flooded more than i liked them to.. it was a gradual process.. but now, im most comfortable in a brief 24/7, even though i'm not totally incontinent and can mostly make it to the toilet..but let me tell you, im really glad to be wearing a brief and not have to worry about where im pointing when that sudden accident does strike.. and, with max protection, i can choose whether i want to clench or just let go.. its a gradual thing.. I never wear regular underwear anymore..and frankly, i feel odd (not to mention unsafe and unprotected) doing so. Do i want to get out of diapers? Of course! But, if i do, it will take some getting used to wearing regular underwear again.. after wearing 24/7 for 3 months, its weird not to be wearing a diaper.. i feel and look weird in a pair of underpants.. the exact opposite was true of wearing a diaper 6 moths ago..how ironic! Anyway, my point is, it does take time, and mental adjustment. It just becomes a part of life..and its impossible to rush the process.
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