I don't think there is one way that is the end all be all... I know from all your past posts you were really struggling with finding a product that worked for you without bad leaks... maybe pull-ups are not the answer but a lighter tab-style? I really hope you can find the right management needs for your body so you don't need to struggle anymore..
good luck!
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