I hesitate to post this, but I think we are here to help each other, and maybe this will help others.......
I read a post here:
"My wife is not incontinent, and I don't leak alot during this, but it turns off my wife sometimes. I thought about what you did, so I asked her about her wearing a diaper to catch my leaks. She was reluctant at first, but she finnally agreed to try it. Well it worked great! I did leak as usual, but nothing got on the bed. She really liked the ideal about no clean-up afterwards. It seems to have helped with her attitude now. This weekend, she came to bed in a diaper and was ready for it again! Sorry if this offends anyone, but sex and diapers are a real problem for couples who are incontinent."
This is a near image of my own experience.....
I am a widower, but when my lovely wife was around, she was very supportive of my continence issues, and, indeed, had some minor continence issues herself, especially when we made-love together, if you get my drift......
I have to wear a nappy to bed, or else I have to send-out flares for a lifeboat! My wife didn't have this problem, but nearly every night she wore nappies and plastic pants to bed, so that we could "cuddle" without getting the sheets wet. The best solution was for both of us to wear snap-side terry pants, with snap-side plastic pants. We found that we could make love in many positions without wetting the sheets, then "snap-up" and go back to sleep.
Necessity is the Mother of invention........
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