justej wrote:
A nurse came today to assess my needs for my home health aid. We both agreed that with my lack of mobility, the fact that my hands shake from one of my meds, and the fact that I'm considered a fall risk that I will need help changing. I've gone through some emotions today. The fact is though that I've needed help when I was in the hospital and after my implant surgery I needed help a few times and I survived. The aid is there to help me and I'm not the only one who needs help. I'm not alone. It's hard to admit at my age that I cant do this on my own. My aid starts next week.
Justej,
There is absolutely no shame in getting help when you need help. I have worked with handicapped incontinent adults, and one was completely dependent on assistance for self care.. he had spastic CP so severe he was stiff as a board most of the time. He is able to toilet, but is nonverbal so he doesnt alwys get to a toilet in time. I helped him get his "underwear" on several times after going to the bathroom. Thought nothing of it. The aid most likely will have the same attitude.. She is a professional after all.
I have also at times fed adult and teen campers. I have witnessed children and adults being fed. They have learned to accept it as a part of life. Disability sometimes gives you lemons, but ya make lemonade!!!
Look on the bright side.. at least youre able to self feed and dont have to worry about choking... right??
Peace out!
Rob
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