Patrick, so very true. It is easy to underestimate the amount of time required to manage our incontinence. It takes time just to keep track of the inventory of incontinence-required items and to order or purchase necessary items. I estimate that I lose two hours per day on enemas, Kegel exercises, diaper changing, self-catheterization, laundry, managing inventory of diapers, boosters, wipes, rash creams, and absorbent pad; and just planning the day. All of this takes time away from Quality of Life. Of course, if you do not use enemas or wear cloth diapers, your time should be considerably less.
And then there is the expense, but that should be the topic of a separate discussion.
--John