I think many of you will enjoy the chat experience at our sister site, a moderated forum on Yahoo, URL:
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AdultIncon/
Spamming and inappropriate posts are a problem for any site and especially one dealing with diapers that attracts all kinds of the wrong attention! Our webmasters, Schoppy at this site and Brew at the Yahoo site, do a great job of keeping the boards clean and on-topic!
Let me touch on the differences on how each site is run.
Here, at the ISC, anyone can read the forum but they can't post anything without registering on a one time basis and when Schoppy OK's them, folks can post at will and the post goes up immediately.
At the Adult Incon Group you must join as a member; visitors can see our home page but cannot read any of the messages. You apply for membership, no big deal. Brew does insist on a letter of introduction but don't worry, it need not be 6 pages single spaced! LOL. A short note to the point, will do fine, stating why you wish to join Adult Incon. We have several moderators to provide an additional level of protection against spamming and inappropriate posting.
Still, once a member at Adult Incon, your posts will go up within 24 hours and often within 12 hours since we have moderators that are night owls and early birds.
I am Joe Kelly on this board and Joe Shaughnessy at the Adult Incon board and I really feel the two compliment one another with a great balance of information and lively discussion on topics of interest to all of us struggling with incon, whether that affliction be a new thing in our lives or something we've dealt with for a long time. We can always learn from the experiences of others and I (long in the tooth and grey haired) continue to learn from the great folks at each of these great incon sites!