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im staying the night at my best friends house tonight to help take of his roomates dog while he is at work (his roomate is out of town)
ive bitten the bullet and told him im incontient. he was cool, he just felt sorry for me.
this is the first time ive stayed somewhere other than home (and the last time i was with my parents) since having to wear diapers.
ive brought plenty with me, packed plenty of plastic bags, and brought a bed pad just in case. (im sleeping on the leather couch)
i think ill be okay but im nervous.
here goes nothing.

Good luck, and remember, it's a condition, and your friend knows.
Add to that, you are prepared, so all should be good.

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Hello, my name is Scott, and physically, I am 40 years old. However, thanks to abuse, and being special needs, mentally and emotionally, I am equal to about 6-10 years old.

thanks scott. hes my best friend and i know he wont judge. my mom said she would have never known had they not helped me buy supplies and had them shipped to their house before i got there because i was so discreet.
but i wanted him to know because its a really small apartment and he would probably find out eventually. (he is helping me post surgery next week)

Glad to hear you have a good friend like that Justej. Good luck to you.

well everything turnred out fine.
no leaks, no issues. he probably would have never known if i hadnt told him. but like i said he will be with me right after surgery monday so he will find out anyway.
alls well that ends well.

hi Justej

Glad every thing went well

Rob

Your success should reassure you about your management skills. Uneventful is wonderful. Good luck on your upcoming surgery, and report back when you can.

thanks rob.
patrick - yea it has given me a lot of confidence that i can handle this and not let it ruin my life.
im gaining more acceptance each day.
ill definately report back after surgery. ill be housebound for a month so ill have plenty of time.