msshendo, it took my wife a while to become comfortable with the terminology. She still calls my daily enemas my "procedure," although as a retired RN I guess that would be professional terminology. At least now a diaper is a "diaper."
Sorry about your "bad hair day."
It is more likely that your hydration level was the big contributor to your accident. The oils alone should not have made the difference. Due to my bowel incontinence I am covered with barrier cream - right up into my crotch - and have no difficulties from that.It is possible that some minor alteration in how you adjusted and taped the diaper left just a little looseness at the leg gathers which increased as the diaper sagged. Due to my bowel incontinence I have learned the hard way. For maximum efficiency, both the internal standing leak guards and the leg gathers should be in contact with the skin. I really have to be careful with cloth-backed diapers due to their increased stretching and thus increased sag.
--John