Thanks JoeK, I do what I can, some days better then others. I appreciate the forum, it has been a great outlet for someone who does not have one close at hand to confide in, even if it is in anonymity, it is still a huge help getting and offering advice to others having to cope with type of issue. I also appreciate how much work goes into the running of a forum like this, it is certainly a daily attention giving job to keep it clean and trouble free, thanks for all your efforts Schoppy! I wish everyone the best 2013 they can have!

Puffy