Scott902 wrote:
MSUSpartan wrote:
OK. Not admin, a moderator (dealing with forum content issues), which falls into squarely into the same category as far as I'm concerned here.
The question then becomes if Brian was addressing the message to wetters the moderator, or wetters the individual. As a moderator, I think you need to be fairly thick skinned either was, but if the message has a harassing tone, it crosses the line regardless of whom it is sent to. I don't know if that's the case or not (not being directly privy to the exchange), but I think it's necessarily a part of the discussion here.
I think Wetter's post, describing a part of the PM, is enough merit.
Wetters wrote:
Brian, Please don't pm me again. For purposes of public notice, I didn't request a pm from you, and you didn't do me the courtesy of asking for permission before you did it. I won't buy into your intimidation by privately responding to your pm. FYI, I continue to maintain my stance as to AB/DL content on the ISC forum/website.
Schoppy, I'd like to forward Brian's pm to you (there's stuff in there about how he craves a pacifier and bottle), but I can't figure out how to do that. Can you go into my account and retrieve it? Thanks.
W.
Not to sound argumentative, but it seems that you may have missed parts of the last 3-4 pages, with all the various comments.
Happens to me, too, so not meaning to sound rude or anything.
CONTEXT, because without it anything can be taken out of, well... context. And the whole conversation is -exactly- why I did not post it on the forums too..........
Wetter, Yes I now see I was wrong in contacting you without direct permission first. I mis-took your direct comment to me as FIRST making that contact- to which I replied to you PRIVATELY. In order for me to respond in full I couldn't have done so in this thread without posting what I knew I shouldn't. Don't forget it wasn't me who posted this on the web here.
Scott, I absolutely do agree that nothing abdl should be posted here. I have accepted that, and this is why I have not done so. (in spite of those previously mention "undertones" which is what brought this whole fiasco up in the first place). Yeah, if I did start talking about it openly here, or in any other thread, they yeah I absolutely would deserve being banned. As Wetters mentioned though, private messaging is not on the forums or web site. I stand my by belief that I did not break any written rules. Message-wise it seems I absolutely did break an unwritten rule though, to which I was not previously aware. I am now.
To both of you, I apologize and promise I will not message anyone again without getting their prior approval.