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Hi Owly
Your story sounds like most? Wouldn't it be nice to just skip all the Medical crap and just learn right away to except diapers I know I know that's not really something that can be done in reality. A person would need to be able to see the future while excepting the present and being able to ignore the what if's on the in between part (wow it's getting late )

As far as the DL thing goes I struggled for a long time with that one. Up until recent years I was dead against the whole AB/DL thing. But I've sorta figured out a few things about that perversion

One why are people so dead against it. When it comes to us these are the one group that is most likely to except us with our condition Granted I don't want to be played with so to speak by one of them on a board like this.

Two I've spent some time recently in fact talking to a few people that are into the AB/DL "Quote life style" I feel as tho I have a little more understanding about the perversion. I'd have to say I'm glad I don't have that perversion (or do I)

Three in some respects we kinda need to thank the AB/DL perversion. For the fact that because of the perversion we have things like adult plastic rumba pants (one of my favorites ) And other fun plastic pant designs. Who knows we may not have some of the choices in protection out there if it weren't for their influence

Four are you a Diaper lover or do you have leanings toward an Adult Baby Their are many fascists to this idea to consider. But being it's 1 o'clock in the morning I'm not really up to dealing with at the moment.

Five if I'm honest with myself I think I'm a bit of a DL I often find a sense of comfort and security in my protection. I think both Jane and my other young friend would agree with this as well. I don't want to get to graphic here. But Jane and I have both admitted to each other that there are times when our bladder lets go. It can have a comforting sort of feeling as you get a warming sensation down there I'd be curious to know if other women feel this type of effect. But then maybe some of you guys might agree Maybe because I'm a women my hardware is a little more sensitive to that?? I think I'm getting myself in deep here aren't I

I'll stop here I'd be interested in hearing what others have for thoughts on this subject/subjects

...............................Sandy

Deen, DL? It's a fetish if you are not incontinent. If you are incontinent and have to wear diapers I see it as more of a coping device. Reguardless of how well we can say we accept or have adjusted to being incon or that diapers are just another form of underwear it still drives most of us crazzy. We worry about being away too long or drinking too much. We can have all the self confidence in the world but that is shattered by a leak or fear of one. Rhumbas, baby prints, colors, onsies, cloth, disposables, etc. might be great for a short time but when the rubber hits the road a true DL can just use the bathroom. We do not have that option. So playing DL is not quite the same as being one. No design or print can elleviate the embarasment of being out and leaking through. What I think I am saying is, you might "think" you're DL if you wear cercain things, but, the bottom line is we are incontinent and it bothers us and we try to find comfort anyway we can. It (in my own case) just dosen't work enough of the time. Yes it can be fun for a sort time but the reality is rhumbas, prints or what ever - they are still diapers and we still have to wear them and use them. It is also so confusing and at times depressing. Even Sandy who can say she has been in diapers so long she hardly thinks of it - thinks of it. We all do! Papa

Sorry I blew up? .................................Sandy