Update: I have the Tena Ultimates now and I have to say, like Goldilocks, they are "just right." They are somewhere in between the size of Tena Regular Heavy/Always Discreet Maximum Long and NorthShore DynaDry Supreme pads. I haven't had a leak so far (I rarely leak) but they seem like they will really hold up. Wetters, maybe they redesigned the Ultimates b/c they are not like wearing a 2x4 anymore. I find the DynaDry like 2x4s - way too bulky for my needs and I was constantly aware of them b/w my legs. They were shaped like a diaper. I mean I would consider DynaDry if my leaking progresses a lot but currently they are just overkill.
NorthShore should really consider designing a smaller DynaDry pad for petite people with urge incontinence.
Now that I found a product I like, I hope they do not change the Tena Ultimates. I'm currently wearing them with tights and a fitted dress and they are completely discreet. Very happy I found these!
