www.incontinentsupport.org

Just remember, we have ALL gone through exactly this sort of problem. We did say finding the right combination is full of lots of trial and error- with emphasis on the error part.

You are not alone in what you're going through. We sympathize, but can also say it WILL get better and easier for you.

Justj,

"Amen" to what Brian said about the need for trial and error. The willingness to experiment and to suffer the consequences of failure and keep on going are a characteristic of a being survivor for anyone with incontinence. I am still experimenting and finding new things and better ways to do things. You are doing great. Don't let it get you down. If it does, just vent!

--John