www.incontinentsupport.org

Thanks for the tip. I used to drive long haul truck years ago and have used similar facilities here. I can't believe I forgot about them. Must be getting old and forgetful.

Diapersagain, I cant help but notice in the above quote, and the apology to me that you seem to beat yourself up over small mistakes. I hope I don't offend you by saying this, I'm just concerned. I'm concerned because incontiennce is know to significantly hurt one's self esteem.. especially if tend to be a bit hard on yourself before it happened.. The only reason i bring this up, is that sometimes I'm too hard on myself. A job coach once told me, If you were as hard on me as you are on yourself, I wouldn't like you. Be nice to Rob, hes my friend." Indeed these are words to take to heart. We ALL make mistakes, and nobody is perfect And please take this to heart: Incontinence, bladder, or bowel, and wearing diapers, DOES NOT make one less of a person, or make you less of a man/woman.. You are a person worth of love and respect, no matter what your medical problems are. My heart breaks as I read your comments about other people saying things. Incontinence is a tough road to hoe.. and we are all in this thing together.. Hang in my friend, and remember you are a person worth value, no matter what.. Happy New Year!

Perhaps we should all make a New Year's resolution to be nice to ourselves and realize we ALL make mistakes!

Peace out, and happy New Year!

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Bingo. I remember in 2002 I was put on meds to help my then both day and night Incontinence. I got mad at my little brother and almost beat the living hell out of him. Then when my parents took his side (he was 11 I was 18) I tried to leave the house. My sister how was home on leave from the National Guard would have none of and and tried to stop me. I put my fist clear through a double insulated glass window about five times (it had tinting over it so it did not shatter) The meds I was on made it so i did not even feel it at all. I could have lifted a truck and laughed about it. so I say to hell with Meds.

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