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We all are different. Some get up, brush, shave, wash and dress for day. Others get up put on the coffee open paper or computer and start the day less quickly. I am up very early and so just come down and start the coffee. I suppose when all this started, which was all at once (surgery/cancer) I was so freaked out by wearing diapers I changed instantly. I tried to some how rationalize that being in a dry diaper was less babyish than being in a wet one which was never dry more than a few mins with the constant dripping. I also used that same rational towards how thick the diapers were. It took a few months to adjust to the fact that thicker was better and wet was a way of life. I suppose in the begining it also was that I was parinoid about leaks since I had no idea of when that might happen. Now I am 95% aware of where the leak point danger is. Sitting/walking around drinking my coffee in the morning in wet diapers is no different than sitting/walking around in wet diapers after dinner in the evening or walking around in wet diapers doing yardwork or - whatever. I assume everyone here wears diapers because they have no choice so everyone here walks/sits/sleeps in wet diapers all day and night. When we need a diaper change is just up to our own personal preference. Papa