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they work for my needs too and probably the most stylish type available over here. Tena men has a sense of humour over in Europe tooo, and they did this print ad which I thought was good. Copying the style of a designer men's underwear advert.

Ha! Humorous indeed.

and despite my best efforts in the gym, I don't even come close to this physique!

Heh heh, I don't workout beyond a keyboard. I can do the grey moustache and hair but I can't even keep control anymore. Maybe a tattoo would help.

Hi Wayne,
I wear pullups at home and I also notice the same uncomfortable feeling if I am sitting for a prolonged period of time. I also notice that this happens when the pullon is wet and needs a change. I will either change the pullup or I will get up and walk around and sometimes that helps.
Interestingly, I don't get the same feeling with diapers. I think its because the padding is wider and doesn't bunch.

Thanks for the note fiacs. I can understand that being especially true when being wet, as it swells up. Interesting experience with the non-pullup diaper.

For example, I used to fly quite often and I always wear a diaper on the plane. I will sit without getting up for several hours at a time and I don't have the same problem with the padding bunching up as I do with the pullup

Interesting- another argument in favour of the tabbed briefs. I'm not against them per se but the Mrs will likely disapprove. I think I will get some anyway with the next order, even if it is just to have them on hand and to try them out.

I suppose that apart from cost my concern would be how effective re-tabbing is after using the toilet? That probably depends upon the product chosen.

I think its a good idea to try them out and see if they meet your needs better than what you are using now.
Retabbing a diaper can be challenging. There are several solutions. Some diapers have velcro esp the cloth backed diapers. I will often use a cloth backed diaper if I think I will need to redo the tapes i.e. shopping because I may be able to find a toilet in time but I don't want to be embarassed if I dont.

Thanks for the advice.