www.incontinentsupport.org

So it seems that for me, I can have periods of control followed by periods of little to no control and this cycles continually. The madening part for me is I have no idea how this cycle is going to go or what time frame the period of control will be. Thus I just wear diapers 24/7.

It appears I have entered the period of little to no control. We will see how long that lasts this time.

_________________
"Why is the rum always gone?" - Captain Jack Sparrow

"There is no human problem which could not be solved if people would simply do as I advise." -
Gore Vidal

I can imagine how frustarting that can be..I've had a similar experience.. it seems some days i have almost no control, barely ever make it to the toilet, and some days i have only used one or two diapers the whole day. its all part and parcel of the the whole neurgenic bladder thing.. hang in there.. and just trust your protection.. I'm curious.. can you feel a full bladder, or feel it coming on wehn youre about to leak...sometimes I do, sometimes I don't..sometimes i feel when my bladder's full and can make it to the toilet..sometimes i can't..its a real crapshoot.. sometimes i appreciate the need.. and can get up and go.. no problems..other times im getting ready to pee..and before I can take the diaper off.. the floodgates open.. sometimes i can clench it and stop it..sometimes I can't.. sometimes when I clench the flow..it only lasts a few seconds..then the flow starts again.. i think my issues stem from combined weak sphincter muscles.. and detrusor spasms..

Just hang in there.. things will get better

Peace out!

Rob

_________________
"We cannot do great things. We can only do small things with great love" Mother Teresa

"THERE ARE FOUR LIGHTS!" - Captain Picard from Chain of Command, Part II

What you described there just about sums it up for me too. It really is a crapshoot. Sometimes I'm good and others I'm not. This morning I just about had a full diaper before I got to work. Other days I can go all day and never have to change. That is the annoying part of this. Never knowing what is going to happen.

_________________
"Why is the rum always gone?" - Captain Jack Sparrow

"There is no human problem which could not be solved if people would simply do as I advise." -
Gore Vidal

Raising my hand and saying me too. The only guarantee is I'm going to have an accident sometime. The question is when. Some days only one accident others I ask my bladder what did I do to you.

Welcome to the club Batman. I'm not sure it's the bladder or the sphincter's. But yes that is the annoying part. Yesterday was horrible. Just couldn't control anything all day. Changed multiple times. Today isn't starting out so good either.

_________________
"Why is the rum always gone?" - Captain Jack Sparrow

"There is no human problem which could not be solved if people would simply do as I advise." -
Gore Vidal

i believe that unpredictability is one of the hallmarks of urge incontinence. Like the rest of you, I never really know from hour to hour whether I'll be able to use the toilet or will soak my diaper. However, the accidents are frequent enough that I always wear a diaper.