KDLSTAR,
Thanks! I just bookmarked those two sites for future references. The information there helps, I think I might order a sample of the TotalDry X-Plus! Incidentally, I tried the Bambino Bianco that the DiaperInfo site evaluated, ordered a sample to test the fit first and got their white one and one with patterns.... Oddly, I was only charged for the Bianco brand. I liked the fit and comfortability, but of their two the patterned one was better. I just couldn't see using it on daily basis as they were like $2 a diaper. That, and if you are accidently caught wearing, god forbid, at least a plain one will get you less odd looks.
I had hesitated to mention the experience, given the nature of that diaper dealer, but they were recommended on a few other incontinent type groups. Luckily I found the cool kids, because this site is better at keeping it to the pertinent topics than others. (thumbs up emoticon) Plus, you guys haven't steered me wrong and my wallet thanks you!! Anyway, I digress.... I wonder if the TotalDry has their own site or other locations I could order from so I can deduct them as a medical expense at the end of the year... Off to research the interwebs!!