www.incontinentsupport.org

I was a barefoot water skier before the botched surgery that left me incontinent. I use my barefoot pants over my diaper, there not totally water proof but they keep most of the water out and tight to your body. I first used this at the beach were we had a long walk to were I could change. But at home in our pool, I just drain the diaper after I get out of the pool under the cover of a towel.

They look a lot like the Suprima swimpants I bought.

http://www.b4ns.com/index.php?PageType= ... duct=S1521

They work with a small pad inside, and eventhough it will get soaked once you submerge in the water, there's no signs of you being protected. And they can even handle a small wetting at that stage while you are heading back