Bowel and Urine incontinence
Posted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 9:32 pm
I don`t know where to start.I have been in diapers for a little over three Month's.I went in the Hospital with a heart attack and came out feeling fine.
I was out of the hospital five days Then I stared to feel weird after about three days.On the sixth day I woke up really feeling weird and was wetting my self every ten minutes or so and could not stop it.This lasted till and after I was in the emergency room.They did another heart Cathe and said every thing was fine but I could not control wetting at all.That got better but still not right.
Sometimes if I am close to a rest room I would be OK. But all the time I would be a little wet any time I felt the need to go.I have also mess my self the same way.I have no feeling I need to go till I am going.But unless a loose stool I can stop it for a few minutes.It is like with both that by the time I feel any thing I am so full I can`t hold it.
I found out the feeling I had to void was coming from the wetness I would feel in my under wear.As when I put on a diaper that keeps the wet away from you I would be wetting and not know it.The other night I woke up wet
and went to change and I had messed my self and did`t even know it till I took my diaper off as it was heavy any way from being so wet.
While I was in the hospital they did MRI`s and you name it of my whole body.They put a Catheter in me to check if I was totally voiding.That hurt.
Because of the heart attack now I am on a diuretic so just went and put my self in diapers so I was not looking for a restroom every fifteen minutes.Or messing in my auto or a store.After the morning and the Diuretic wears off I can go for four hours or more with out a diaper change unless I mess my self.I have been taking Nullo pills for the last few days but so far I still smell when I do.To me that is the worse part is if I mess and in a store or around people.Most of the time it is not much and could get by if not for the smell.I sort of have that down most days as I will mess in the morning at home and then unless I have loose bowels I will be good to go the rest of the day but never know when that will leak out some.
I am 66 and retired so can more or less time when to do things.I made up my mind that I am not going to sit at home and mope over this.I plain when to go to the mall and such so my diaper will last the trip but have a change in the car just in case.I have a case that just looks like I could be carrying about any thing in it.So if need be I can get it and go in the handy cap stall and change.
I was all ways embarrass about such things till I was in the hospital this time and I think every one saw me and every one in ER saw me wetting all over.I don`t go out and tell the world I am wearing diapers but feel a lot better wearing than wondering if I am going to wet or mess my self.Even before this I was all ways looking for a rest room to urinate.Or a rest area when traveling
I hope I was not to crude but I am still learning how to deal with it.I go back to the doctor in a few weeks.
I about made up my mind that I am not going through a bunch of test or be a test dummy or a source of income for them for to long.My PSA is normal and I will go with a Colonospy but what I read about the drugs and such the side effects are a lot worse than a diaper on my behind.
I think it mite have been a med they put me on the first time I was in but not for sure what happen.As I said I have all ways had a Little leak but not like now.It is like I just lost all feeling when I am full of either till I can`t hole any more.Or when I have soft stool my mussel does not know to hold it in if I lift something or do any thing to put presser on the bowel that is in me.
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I was out of the hospital five days Then I stared to feel weird after about three days.On the sixth day I woke up really feeling weird and was wetting my self every ten minutes or so and could not stop it.This lasted till and after I was in the emergency room.They did another heart Cathe and said every thing was fine but I could not control wetting at all.That got better but still not right.
Sometimes if I am close to a rest room I would be OK. But all the time I would be a little wet any time I felt the need to go.I have also mess my self the same way.I have no feeling I need to go till I am going.But unless a loose stool I can stop it for a few minutes.It is like with both that by the time I feel any thing I am so full I can`t hold it.
I found out the feeling I had to void was coming from the wetness I would feel in my under wear.As when I put on a diaper that keeps the wet away from you I would be wetting and not know it.The other night I woke up wet
and went to change and I had messed my self and did`t even know it till I took my diaper off as it was heavy any way from being so wet.
While I was in the hospital they did MRI`s and you name it of my whole body.They put a Catheter in me to check if I was totally voiding.That hurt.
Because of the heart attack now I am on a diuretic so just went and put my self in diapers so I was not looking for a restroom every fifteen minutes.Or messing in my auto or a store.After the morning and the Diuretic wears off I can go for four hours or more with out a diaper change unless I mess my self.I have been taking Nullo pills for the last few days but so far I still smell when I do.To me that is the worse part is if I mess and in a store or around people.Most of the time it is not much and could get by if not for the smell.I sort of have that down most days as I will mess in the morning at home and then unless I have loose bowels I will be good to go the rest of the day but never know when that will leak out some.
I am 66 and retired so can more or less time when to do things.I made up my mind that I am not going to sit at home and mope over this.I plain when to go to the mall and such so my diaper will last the trip but have a change in the car just in case.I have a case that just looks like I could be carrying about any thing in it.So if need be I can get it and go in the handy cap stall and change.
I was all ways embarrass about such things till I was in the hospital this time and I think every one saw me and every one in ER saw me wetting all over.I don`t go out and tell the world I am wearing diapers but feel a lot better wearing than wondering if I am going to wet or mess my self.Even before this I was all ways looking for a rest room to urinate.Or a rest area when traveling
I hope I was not to crude but I am still learning how to deal with it.I go back to the doctor in a few weeks.
I about made up my mind that I am not going through a bunch of test or be a test dummy or a source of income for them for to long.My PSA is normal and I will go with a Colonospy but what I read about the drugs and such the side effects are a lot worse than a diaper on my behind.
I think it mite have been a med they put me on the first time I was in but not for sure what happen.As I said I have all ways had a Little leak but not like now.It is like I just lost all feeling when I am full of either till I can`t hole any more.Or when I have soft stool my mussel does not know to hold it in if I lift something or do any thing to put presser on the bowel that is in me.
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