Hello Gary, welcome to the site and forum. I am sure you will find some useful info here, there is a ton of it to read through. I too have urge incontinence, but not with the same symptoms as yours, we all seem to be a bit different in how things go there. Thanks for the info on the meds, that is my next route to try, but leaning away from it more and more as from all I have read about them, they do little for helping, and the side effects are just too bothersome.

Good luck with the appt with the continence advisor, hope you can get some answers, but with back issues involving disks etc, that may well be what the cause is. I am in the same boat there too, although no disk issues to speak of, suspected nerve damage. Anyhow, take care, Puffy