To tell or not to tell

[Damp]

I am considering traveling with a few friends, two women and a man, for a week in Vermont. We hope to stay in an AirBnB. My anxiety raises significantly when these opportunities arise due to my incontinence issues. I have, in fact, declined a few invitations for this reason. The male individual that will be traveling with us knows of my incontinence and need to wear diapers. I'm not sure if the women know. My question is, should I inform them of my incontinence, or take my chances. Obviously, I will need to take more luggage which can also lead to some embarrassment. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

[wayne]

I think you are the one best situated to answer that question. But if I was put in that situation, I think I would only mention it if the need arises. I do think that women are more understanding about IC issues.