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Yes it seems that a lot of practical things disappear... The same with my boxer shorts... I also have the problem that I leak sometimes while sitting. To solve this problem I bought a couple of years ago boxers that had a complete PU sealing between the inner and the outer fabric and where fantastic to wear... Gone... Until now I did't found anything like this again...

This was how they had looked like:



So if anyone have an idea where I can get something similar I would be happy

Since working from home full-time I have had more leaks while sitting. When I was in the office I always had meetings or other reasons to get up from my desk which made me more aware of how wet I was. At home I have a chair pad and have became lazy and less concerned about leaking.

Yes - Home Office is a big advantage and chair pad's are really useful... I had them also in the companys office as well as in my car. How ever, I hate this kind of accidents that luckily doesn't happen that often to me. How ever - I'm still looking for this sort of boxers. They had solved the problem perfectly but now they are not available anymore ...

Well I seem to bizarrely found a solution. My control problems come and go, but in the last week or so they really went.

When I started on another medication for incomplete emptying (to make me empty more each time, not to pee more), my new partner wanted me to double up on the nappy/diaper I was using. I did talk him down to just boosters then working upwards, so i still had some maxi pads used as boosters. (As I am MtF I don't get periods). So with that in mind, three in a row - and i've had far fewer leaks than I did before. (I was getting to the loo in time 7-9 times out of 10 for quite a while, but now less than 1).

So either Kotex or some other night pads (or any traditional thick ones.
My online supermarket have their own brands around 75p-£1 a pack of 10 night or 20 day/super - as you can only buy ten in one online shop I went for both.
These are much more readily availbile in the UK than boosters but there are many others you cvan get tommorrow.
A row of three covers most of my nappy/diaper.

So there's a solution - boys might not like going shopping for essentially period protection, but if you are
anything like me then bladder problems / hopsital stays / strangers poking your crotch / why is my bladder/nbowle doimg tht like me then your fears and the likes will probably be decades ago....

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Suzy x