Urologymedic - seems that you would be in a position to tell us how diabetes and incontinence are related. I've got both and periodically, I get fed up, go to Dr and they run a series of tests and tell me that everything looks "OK" but obviously everything is not "OK". I've done this now three separate times, most recently in the last 6 months. My urologist, neurologist and GP basically say that when you have diabetes, incontinence happens and there is no point in going any further. I've told my Dr team that I'm not interested in any surgical solutions so basically, I'm stuck with what I've got. Until they can figure out how to reverse nerve damage (both peripheral and autonomic), I guess there is no fixes. I'm working hard to keep my blood sugars as low as I can, high blood sugars is what causes the damage. I have had incontinence for 30-40 years but only have known that I'm diabetic for 15 years. My Drs. figure that I've been diabetic all along, but nobody cared to check my A1C to see if I am diabetic until it was done for an insurance policy.
My problem is that my continence comes and goes. Right now, it isn't. I don't like wearing diapers much and prefer the continent world, but I have these periods of time where my ability to control my bladder/bowels just goes away without any warning. I'll be fine for days, weeks even months and suddenly, I'll discover I'm sitting in a puddle or I have an extra load in my underwear. Hard to be PC in these issues. Most recently, I was watching TV last Sunday and wet my pants three times in less than 8 hours. I probably should have diapered up after the first accident, but I really didn't want to deal with that then. Most of the time, a new cycle happens during the night and I wake up in a wet bed. I've discussed this with both my neurologist and urologist and they can't figure it out. Of course, most of the testing happens when I'm continent, but I can't understand why this happens. I've been doing this now for 40 years, but it is gradually getting worse. Years ago, I rarely had bowel issues, but now that comes with the cycle. The last one lasted for two weeks and I had about a three week period where things worked mostly. That isn't to say that I don't have some issues all the time. I have small urge leaks that happen frequently when I'm continent, but not floods like what happens when I'm not. I've had bowel accidents that were all by themselves (right in the middle of the grocery store) or I've lost complete control and wet and messed myself in public. I hate that to the extreme, thus the reason to try to get some understanding of what is going on. I have heard others say they have some similar experiences, but most are very black and white, your either continent or your not. I"m both and it takes its toll. Any insight would be welcome.
Dan
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