Hey!
It's been a coons age since I posted. Been using Abena, but right now its just as a just in case patterns shift again gesture, because, knock on wood, my bladder has been behaving. I dont know if its the fact I sweat most shifts, or drinking komubacha is affecting the makeup of my pee such that I have better bladder control, or is having regular sex strengthening my pelvic floor? Perhaps all 3? Hmm, is there any study linking sexual activity with better bladder control? I'm certainly not complaining. It's really annoying to be trying to go about your workday and have to change your diaper 2 or 3 times because your bladder is going nuts. Or... it could just be a dry cycle, and as soon as fall and winter hit im back to pissing like a baby. I can't take the chance of wearing underwear just yet. Far too many instances of dryness followed by sudden onset episodes to trust my bladder enough to wear undies.
My situation is relatively unchanged. I remain roughly at at 43-44 inch waist and between 225 and 230 lbs. I am trying to get below 220 but my body is not cooperating as of yet
. Slowly getting all those cloth diapers that I bought in this sizing frenzy paid off 
. Peace out!
Rob
The last dry spell that I had that was long term that was of this vane doing pelvic floor and biofeedback what not was a few months, and before that it was 4 years. So if I can be sexually active with my wife and get a dry few months or 6 months or a year, it would be AMAZING. Always gonna keep diapers on standby, but If Im dry long enough, will consider wearing regular undies again. Althuogh, after wearing diapers for so long, wearing regular undies feels weird. It really does. Not sure how to process that.