Dealing with incontience is hard enough without people questioning you and calling you lazy because sometimes you wet your diaper instead of running to the bathroom. My dad said sometimes he thinks im just lazy. This morning, i probably could have gotten up an used the bathroom, and i was planning to do so, but as i was waking up, before i got a chance, the diaper started getting wet
and i leaked onto my bed 
..had to wash the sheets. Now, as far as i know, i dont wet in my sleep... just when im awake, but sometimes i do wet the bed when im laying on it and that urge strikes.. not on purpose. How do you deal with it when people call you lazy, when they JUST DON"T UNDERSTAND? Yes, i admit, sometimes i do get a bit lazy, but then again, I'm sometimes struck without warning.. my incontinece seems to be going downhilll.. i'm struggling hard to maintain control...but again, it seems no matter what i do, or how many times i go to the bathroom, the diaper still gets wet eventually.