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Outed by my nephew.. my response
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Author:  sociologygeek [ Sun Jul 19, 2020 2:52 am ]
Post subject:  Outed by my nephew.. my response
Well, it happened. I was wearing a northshore supreme that peeked above my shorts, and my shirt happeend to ride up.. was with my nephew, and this is a situation that could have been avoided.. I coulda worn a brief with a more trim cut and been fine, coulda worn a bodystocking, coulda worn a longer shirt... He said and I quote "You have a diaper on?" :shock: :oops: I can hear it crinkling :shock: :oops: Oh i see its a grownup diaper :shock: :oops: " My response? I said absolutely nothing. He dropped it.. and given the fact he is 6, I doubt he will say anything. What do y'all think? Should I say anything? If i don't he might tell a random stranger.. "My Uncle Rob wears diapers." Im not sure what to do. I didn't respond because I didn't know how to. What is an age approriate explanation as to why Uncle Rob is wearing something meant for babies in his mind??
Author:  Don [ Sun Jul 19, 2020 3:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Outed by my nephew.. my response
Nothing. I wouldn’t respond. Let it go. My guess is he won’t tell anyone. He’ll move on to the next random thought that captures his attention.
Author:  JDinVirginia [ Mon Jul 20, 2020 8:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Outed by my nephew.. my response
Agreed. Forget it and move on. Kids don't focus on these things.

--John
(double incontinent)
Author:  Patrick [ Tue Jul 21, 2020 6:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Outed by my nephew.. my response
If, on the outside chance he does remember it and brings it up to you years from now, you can treat it as a teaching moment.
Author:  Tewi [ Wed Aug 05, 2020 6:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Outed by my nephew.. my response
Isn't it rather odd that a 6-year-old would notice? Well I think it is odd. What this tells me is that perhaps, just maybe, SOMEONE else the 6-year-knows or lives around is wearing absorbent protection. Personally I care less as to my own situation. Acceptance does not mean approval. So? Accept it and move on IF you are able. I hope you are able to do so.
Author:  sociologygeek [ Wed Aug 26, 2020 4:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Outed by my nephew.. my response
Tewi wrote:
Isn't it rather odd that a 6-year-old would notice? Well I think it is odd. What this tells me is that perhaps, just maybe, SOMEONE else the 6-year-knows or lives around is wearing absorbent protection. Personally I care less as to my own situation. Acceptance does not mean approval. So? Accept it and move on IF you are able. I hope you are able to do so.

Long ago I accepted this as part of life and my new normal. :)
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