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I have to go along with the crowd. No one ever figures it out. That is not to say that no one ever finds out. I have told a small, select few, and I am pretty sure a coworker went into my gym bag one day, but it has only ever been something that people know about me. If anyone was use it to embarrass me, I suspect it would backfire on them. I work in a very supportive environment.

It is unfortunate that a lot of Americans are carrying a few too many pounds, myself included. A few extra pounds on your bottom is commonplace. A small additional bulge from a diaper is not going to be noticed unless you wear clothing that is too tight. People who know you well are more likely to notice a sudden change, but even then most will not. Those who do not know you absolutely will not notice your diaper. My normal wear is a ConfiDry 24/7 with a booster pad. Worn under jeans that are one size larger than my normal size, no one will notice.

--John

I agree with cycling guy. Don't be so concerned with the noise. Really you are the only one who will really notice it usually. For work when in the office, I use the northshore supreme and also wear a pul plastic pants on top which greatly reduces whatever little noise. You could also try using bike shorts.

But really this is largely just a mental self conscious paranoia thing. Just don't make a big deal and other people won't really notice or care to. It helps you focus on more important and much more fun stuff.