It is unfortunate that a lot of Americans are carrying a few too many pounds, myself included.

A few extra pounds on your bottom is commonplace. A small additional bulge from a diaper is not going to be noticed unless you wear clothing that is too tight. People who know you well are more likely to notice a sudden change, but even then most will not. Those who do not know you absolutely will not notice your diaper. My normal wear is a ConfiDry 24/7 with a booster pad. Worn under jeans that are one size larger than my normal size, no one will notice.
--John