With jeans, you might just bump up one size...I did that and all was well.
Shorts with longer legs work OK
I've seen some women with inco wear lycra or compression shorts, with a long T or top...still look stylish and femine, too.
Some women prefer skirts, I'm told, to make changes easier and to hide bulk they may not be comfortable with.
As to noting other men who may wear...I just don't, nor do I really care.
At the beginning, it's natural to feel everyone notices your 'padding'. In fact, even my 'trained eye' cannot detect
it unless I'm told or take a while to look.
Besides...who is looking? Others are too self-absorbed and not even aware nor even care that you may be padded/diapered.
In time, we inco folks come to realize this, tho we still are discreet. It's just that the anxiety of wearing in public decreases
markedly with time and few (if any) are the wiser. Count on it.
They only way they will "know" is if you tell them...or by other private or intimate contact. And that is reserved only if the
relationship is special and if there is considerable trust in the other.
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