Yep I here ya there That's the worst the feeling

when you feel a leak or sit down and don't realize how wet you are or leave a wet spot on someone else's furniture

. But at least if you have dark or black pants on it's not real noticeable. I many years ago while attending an outdoor reception was dressed up and had a light colored pair of slacks on and my bladder decided to empty into an already wet diaper I was soaked between my legs down a little past my knees. I'm not sure how many people saw it I didn't hang around to find out either I mad a rather fast exit to the van with my hubby right behind me. I guess it deserves me right for wearing light colored slacks

But anyway yes I would agree a public accident is about the worst thing to have happen......Sandy