wwboy wrote:
So I had my test and like you said, it was nothing.
At the same time however it also feels a little bit frustrating or even demeaning because apparently then my issue is unexplainable, in my head, or easily treatable with behavior changes. I was kind of shocked by that and didn’t process my feelings quickly. Still reeling a bit actually.
wwboy, you are not alone in this as many of us in the past have noted the same, i.e., that our physicians were scratching their heads, unable to identify a single cause for our incontinence.

That does not mean that there is not a cause, just that they could not identify it. For example, in my medical records the cause of my incontinence is noted as "idiopathic," a fancy word to say that they don't know. Actually, I had several causes contributing to nerve damage that, collectively, could be responsible. It does not mean that the problem is in your head. Most importantly, don't worry about it.
The medications are worth trying, but you may find it helpful to search for them in the archives as there have been substantial discussions in the past. Most medications for urinary incontinence have such adverse side effects that they are not tolerated well by most users and also are not 100% effective. Some have noted that, if the medication is only partially effective, they still have to wear diapers. However, for a minority of users they are very effective and you may be one of those.
--John