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[Sandy]

Well it happen berry now knows about the diapers. He found out the worst way possible Jane had a major leak in Berry's car. They stopped in Sunday night. I heard Jane come in go into the spare bedroom and then the bathroom. She was in the bathroom sobbing. I went to see what was going on. She was sitting on the edge of the tub with her pants off they were in a heap and it was easy to see what had happen. As she was crying she kept saying no no no this can't be happening, He's not going to want me now

Mean while my husband is out talking to Berry. Berry was very concerned about what had happen. Berry and my husband came inside Berry was trying to talk to Jane outside of the bathroom. I'm still in there I told them just wait we will be out in a bit. I told Jane it looks like the time has come to tell him. Jane is still crying. I told her if I'm any judge of character he's not going to care one bit. He's all for you diapers are not going to be the end for him. Well I'm being paged sorry I'll tell you more later Got to go................................Sandy

[Kendal]

[Paul Martin]

Sandy,
I was wondering how this was going to play out with Jane's new boyfriend. My heart goes out to Jane. But Kendall is right. If Berry really cares about Jane, he'll accept her as she is.
I just hate he had to find out with Jane having an accident in his car.
Jane will eventually get over this, but there's atleast one silver lining in this. Berry now knows and Jane can put that event out of her mind.
Sandy, keep us up to date how it all works out. .....Paul Martin

[Sandy]

Ok I'm back
Anyway I got Jane settled down She got changed got some dry pants on I have to tell you she had drank one of those super size cokes at a taco place and that must have went straight through her I asked her if she thought about changing before coming home. They were abut 35 min. away. She said well I really wasn't that wet. (many of us have been there) Jane said they were around 10 min. away when the urge came on and I started feeling it leaking out. I tried to stay calm but it started coming out stronger and I couldn't stop it. "Sandy" she said I couldn't help myself I could help it. there was nothing I could do nothing Well now i'm hugging her like she's my little sister I have to tell you I had a tear in my eye as well. I know I've been there it brought back memories for me also.

Rats! Jane is paging me out to the shop Sorry ...................Sandy

[Sandy]

OK lets try this again. I don't have lots of time. Anyway I got Jane settled down she got changed. The men are in the living room. Jane comes out red in the face She couldn't even look at Berry. My husband said he filled berry in on what was up. Berry said I had a feeling there was something up with you and a possible bladder issue along time ago. But hey I don't care it's you I like and want. The fact that you wear protection doesn't mean anything. Just be truthful with me he said. (I'm thinking WOW) So we all sat around for what must have been two hours at least. I explained my condition along with Jane and hers. Berry started chuckling and said SO those times you dumped a drink in your lap was when you actually had an accident? Ya Ya Ya I said that's it! Berry laughed and said that's clever. Jane said yep it's not that clever when she does it to you at a restaurant in the middle of winter So we told him that story. After it was all done with My husband said now your are officially in our inter sanctum. So now all we ask is you to keep silent about the girls condition. He said well of course! And I said Yep now you know to much we will have to shoot you and feed your body to the pigs down the road We all had a good laugh and that's where it ended.

Sorry it took so long. This was a short version but it hit the high points
................Sandy

[Paul Martin]

Sandy,
The way Berry was described in all your post, I figured he would be the understanding type. I'm happy to hear all of yoy could laugh after the episode was all over. Now Jane can get going with her relationship with Berry with out having to worry about how he would react when he finally found out about her incontinence. You did good with your support to her, Sandy.
Keep us up to date how it all goes. .....Paul Martin

[Sandy]

Yep the man is a class act Jane said everything has been going real well. Berry has been asking questions to try and understand her condition better. Jane still says she is embarressed about the car thing. Berry told her not to worry about it. No big deal besides for the most part your the only one that sits there anyway I told Jane she should keep a bed pad and a towel in berry's car just in case That could save alot of problems later. Jane said he asked if this happens often to her. Jane said no it happens more to sandy then me OH Thanks I said?

On another note My young friend has had a fellow try to take her on a date. But she will not go there? I'm not sure what's up I think it's the diapers but I maybe wrong. I just heard this from her mother over the weekend. I haven't seen her in a few weeks. I'll have to get in touch with her...........................Sandy

[fred1959]